Our careers and lives are shaped around the type of insecurities that we all harbor within ourselves.
Our insecurities bring out the worst in us. When we are insecure we pick the extremes. Fight or flight.
For instance, financial insecurity might lead you to choose a stable job with poor growth opportunities or a very high-paying job with a poor work-life balance. Saying “Yes” to things that are not aligned with our values and beliefs.
Insecure about your position? You tend to deploy all the deviant and unacceptable behaviors to secure it. Work long hours take credit for someone else’s work, backbiting, the list goes on.
Insecure about your image/appearance/self-worth? You might start belittling others, compare and avoid others whom you feel are better than you.
Insecure about the relationship? You might end up becoming the controller, aggressor or simply become submissive.
Insecurities intensify when we feel life and progress are a 0-sum game.
What’s your take?